Even though few men notice it, there are still some signs that your partner is willing to break up. It’s up to you to identify them.
To help you do this, we have listed the 7 main behaviors that seem to prove that she wants to leave you.
- Know how to anticipate the breakup in order to avoid it.
- 1. She distances herself
- 2. She ignores you in public
- 3. You are clearly no longer his priority
- 4. She always looks for arguments
- 5. She is no longer interested in you and is no longer tactile
- 6. She doesn’t want you anymore
- 7. Secretiveness and guilty: sure, she wants to leave you
Know how to anticipate the breakup in order to avoid it
Often times, many men are surprised when their partner tells them that she wants to break up. Now, before it gets to that, the woman always leaves signs.
Unfortunately, very few of you pay attention to them, either because you don’t know them or because you don’t pay attention. In all cases gentlemen, it is important to know the warning signs of a breakup, to avoid the effect of surprise, and save what can still be.
1. She distances herself
There are signs that never fail. And your partner’s sudden distancing is often the expression of a desire to break up. Note that this distancing is both emotional and physical. She is less and less available to see you and cancels dates that you had planned together.
The most common excuse in this kind of situation is that she has something planned with her girlfriends, when she didn’t even warn you. The explanation is simple: she could not warn you, simply because there was nothing planned beforehand with her friends.
Another expression of her unease is that she will offer you at the last minute to come with her best friend, for a date that initially was supposed to bring together only the two of you. Yes, she doesn’t want to be alone with you. She no longer has the head for that.
2. She ignores you in public
Here you will notice that your partner, who is usually very tactile in public, becomes reluctant to touch you. And even when you try to do it, it shifts delicately.
Typically, women like to appear clearly in public with their partner. A kiss here, a nudge in love there, they never miss an opportunity to get you noticed in public. In the eyes of your friends, and even strangers, you are the perfect couple. But when she has her head elsewhere, at the slightest similar attempt on your part, you irritate her.
Even with your friends, she avoids kissing you. And this sign is the expression of an emotional distance, and often heralding a probable rupture.
3. You are clearly no longer his priority
When your partner is no longer satisfied with your relationship and plans to break up, you will notice it through his desire not to spend much time with you anymore. If you are not yet living together, you will find that she will take less and less initiative to come to you. And for the rare times she does come, she will have only one desire; go home as soon as possible, or at least no longer be in your presence.
If you are already living together, she will come home later more often; and the few times she gets home a little early, it will probably be with some work to do at home, or with supposed fatigue and a need for rest. In fact, all excuses are good to avoid you.
The plans with his friends, family and colleagues are repeated more and more. She, who, formerly, did not spend a weekend without you, suddenly finds herself busy. Gentlemen, she is taking the key to the fields. In some cases, this sign can be compared to those of infidelity.
4. She always looks for arguments
When your partner starts to tire of you, you’ll notice that she never misses an opportunity to create an argument. Either she will find you extremely jealous for something quite trivial, or she will get annoyed at an attitude that she found adorable in you a few months ago.
She is constantly trying to accuse you, to blame all the wrongs on you, to make you feel guilty. When you want to drown your dog, it is accused of rabies, they say. This is how a woman proceeds when she is no longer mindful of your relationship. For her, any subject is good for arguing. For a “yes” or a “no”, Madame gets excited and becomes very irritable. Simply because you forgot your cup of tea on the dining table, she suddenly finds you irresponsible and incompatible.
5. She is no longer interested in you and is no longer tactile
Usually, she checks in on you regularly during the day. SMS, calls, she is very attentive. But when she’s no longer in the relationship, she doesn’t really care what you do with your day. She hardly speaks to you, to speak only of essential things; the bare minimum what.
Women are naturally very tactile. In the past, she might have liked to pull your hair, stroke your beard, or tenderly pinch you. But now she avoids all contact with you. And even when you try to touch her, she pushes you away, avoids you, or jumps up. Also, she no longer feels comfortable with you having physical contact.
6. She doesn’t want you anymore
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If, usually, you spent a good part of your weekends under the duvet exploring the limits of your bodies, this ritual will give way to the classics “not tonight”, “I have a headache”, “I am punctured”. When these sentences start to repeat themselves, gentlemen, know that she is no longer there.
Unlike men, women (often) need to love in order to have sex. And when she pushes you away every time, it’s probably because the feelings are gone. Your strengths as a perfect lover no longer affect him. And even if she lets you do it, you’ll find that her involvement will be really minimal.
7. Secretive and guilty: sure, she wants to leave you
In the past, when she received a late phone call or text, she would spontaneously tell you who it is. When she was going out, you usually knew where she was going, with whom, and what for. When these good habits, which were reflexes, become rare or are perceived as chores, then there is a good chance that it is the expression of a desire to give up everything. A famous sentence which illustrates this disengagement: “I am not accountable to you”. Here we are!
As a rule, women love surprises and gifts. But when your partner becomes reluctant to accept your gifts and other expressions of attention, it is often because she is no longer comfortable with her conscience. She blames herself for something and sees herself more in the posture of a simple friend or acquaintance than of a partner.
If you start to feel any of these signs, you can always try something; try a change or two, to turn things around and save your marriage.
But when several of these signs accumulate, the wine is probably already drawn. Alas! “Goodbye my lover”. It’s up to you to find the strength to overcome the break-up and move on.