All men have gone through a situation like this, you know a girl you like, she is kind, funny and very pretty, but you don’t know if she is always like that or if she likes you too, and when in doubt, let it go. That could be the chance of a lifetime.
Ever since man has been a man, he has had to deal with the uncertainty of whether or not he likes a woman.
And most modern men have no idea other than a caveman and they often make mistakes that spoil everything, from mistaking kindness for flirting to reacting when it’s too late.
We know that the world would be a much simpler place if it worked with direct words, with a simple “I like you, you like me, let’s have a drink, have fun and make few babies but many tries.”
But bad news: it has never worked like this and maybe it never will. It has always been about guessing or deducing what a woman wants. This is just as frustrating for men as it is for women, but it has to be done.
15 ways to say “I like you” in body language
Unless a girl is desperate, very needy or incredibly bored, she will make it difficult for you to win her over, and it is no wonder.
With so many louts spouting compliments and trying to pick them up anywhere, women need to know that you are really trying to achieve something with them and that you really pay attention to them and that is why they give you some clues through their body language.
And since we know that it can be difficult to identify them, here we have a list of 15 gestures with which a woman screams at you that she likes you.
1.- makes eye contact
If she looks into your eyes once or twice it is normal, but three or four is already a sign that she is interested in you and if she makes eye contact with you more times, you definitely have the green light to proceed.
Another somewhat more subtle way to tell if she is interested is to notice if she is trying to hide or disguise that she is looking at you. Although if she definitely watches you and is not afraid to hide it, do not waste your time and go for her.
2.- Coming closer
Women have a kind of force field around them called personal space, and anyone who enters without permission is automatically blacklisted.
Be very observant and notice how far the women you interact with take on a day-to-day basis, so you will know how much personal space a woman normally takes.
If you notice that the girl in question is getting closer than usual sitting next to you and looking for any excuse to make conversation, she is giving you a golden ticket to her personal space, this only they do when they really like someone.
3.-Look for physical contact
It is very similar to the previous point, but more critical. The women only touch people like. If she starts to make physical contact with you, it is a distinct sign that she likes you.
Be observant of gestures as subtle as her touching your leg briefly, taking you by the arm, putting a hand on your chest while laughing and things like that, these gestures are not accidental and are a clear sign of interest.
4.- Smile more
Nothing says “I like you” better than a beautiful, long smile. A smile means that she’s comfortable and at ease, that she’s having a good time with you.
You also have to be observant and notice if they smile the same way at other people. If she does, she’s just generally cheerful and may not be particularly interested in you. If not, you are definitely the one who makes her smile.
5.- Pays attention to you
When you have a conversation with someone, paying attention to them is a basic act of courtesy, and yet you have surely seen people pay more attention to their phone than to the person in front of them.
If the girl you are interested in does that, you may well abandon the mission and stop wasting your time, but if she pays attention to everything you say and nothing else, you can be sure that she is interested.
Some women even feign interest in a topic just to have a conversation with the man they are interested in.
6.- Look at your lips
If she looks at your lips more than once, it is probably because she wants to try them.
I guarantee that she is imagining how they feel and how well you can use them to please her. If she looks at your lips long enough for you to notice, she is yelling at you that she wants to kiss you.
7.- Try to make you see his lips
The previous point brings us to this one, when a woman thinks of your lips, you will notice immediately if you are observant, she will unconsciously try to make you notice hers.
Pay special attention to things that might seem irrelevant, if she puts on a second layer of lipstick while still having the first one, bites her lower lip, runs her fingers over her lips, and so on.
By the time she wants you to pay attention to his lips, you have everything to win.
8.- Raising eyebrow
It’s a rather ambiguous gesture, but it will definitely help something so it’s worth paying attention to.
We say that it is ambiguous because a raised eyebrow can mean many things and not necessarily that a girl is interested in you, but if this action is accompanied by a smile or a look at your lips, she is definitely interested in you.
If, on the contrary, the raised eyebrow comes with a grimace of displeasure, it is better that you stay away.
9.- Arms at the sides
Do you remember what we said about personal space? As long as the girl in question has her arms at her sides, she is allowing you to get closer, as this means openness and willingness to participate in the moment.
If she takes any position that puts her elbows behind her trunk, she is basically crying out for you to try hard to flirt her because she wants something with you.
Instead, if she crosses her arms, you’d better back off a bit as she’s on the defensive and any attempt to move forward will make her uncomfortable and trust me the last thing we want is to ruin both of our night.
10.- Leans towards you
Seeking physical closeness with someone is very evident, as it involves moving the whole body. This is why some girls resort to the subtle trick of leaning towards you if they are interested, so they can be close to you without having to take their feet off the ground or change seats.
11.- Play with her hair
This is something of a programming that all women have from birth and it is universally known that when a woman plays with her hair, she is flirting even without realizing it. It’s practically in the bible.
Pay attention to small details: if she strokes a strand of hair lengthwise, if she wraps it around a finger, things like that.
If she insistently flips her hair back unnecessarily, she’s trying to get you to notice her neck.
Do not underestimate this gesture, because the fact that a woman shows you her neck means that, if you work your movements well, before the end of the night you will be kissing her there.
Not for nothing is the neck a highly erogenous part of Japanese culture and being able to see a woman’s neck is an intimate act.
12.- Push her chest out
Remember what we said about postures that involve putting your elbows behind your torso? This is the next level.
“If you have it, show it off” is something that all women apply when they are interested in a boy.
Women know well that men’s greatest weakness is their breasts, so if they are interested in you, they will try to get your attention by giving you an excellent view of their attributes.
But beware! Do not stare or lose the thread of the conversation because you will look like a jerk and the only thing the girl will think is Whoever follows!
13.- Dilated pupils
You will need decent lighting and good visual acuity to notice this.
Human pupils dilate automatically when something deeply captures a person’s attention.
It is a way in which the brain makes sure it receives as much information as possible about what it is seeing, and if the girl’s pupils look larger than normal, she is guaranteed to be excited about you. Trust us, it’s science.
14.- Makes eyes
It may seem like a joke, but it’s true. If a woman lowers and raises her eyelids more than necessary, it is to flutter her lashes and draw your attention to her eyes.
One way in which the woman manages to do this in a sneaky way is by lowering her gaze (and with it the eyelids) and then looking into your eyes.
15.- Up with those palms!
We are not talking about clapping with your hands up (if a woman does that off the dance floor, it is best to walk away), but about keeping her palms up, even if they are inclined at 45 ° they are a sample of openness and eager to explore touch with you.
A great way to take advantage of this is by gently stroking your palms.
On the contrary, if you keep your hands closed with your palms facing down, perhaps it is best to find another league.
Keep in mind that if a woman likes you, you will notice several of these gestures. One can only be accidental and more evidence is definitely needed before attempting to tie it up.
And always remember: women love attention and they like to be chased and see that you are trying hard. So, make sure you don’t make moves ahead of time. Trust me, he’s going to love seeing you work hard.
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